There are times when men is more complicated and pathetic than a women.
Last week, I decided to download the e-book of 'Men are from mars and Women are from Venus" as a task from my lecturer.
After I read one of the chapter, I come into a conclution that, Men are also as complicated and pathetic as much as women.
Yes you heard it right.
We're live to believe that Men is a strong creature more than a woman in a physical prespective, men are more focus than a women, and any other Men's masculinity that we've heard a lot. But we never heard a sentence that point out the weakness of a men, aren't we?
I ever had a relationship with a man, I admit it's a special also a serious one. This man has an incredible skill of listening to all of the words that came out of my mouth, just listening without complaining. He also has an incredeble problem-solving skill, and able to cope with stress and problems. But, after a long time that we've spent together, I realize that he has a bad communication skill. I don't know if it just to me or to anyone else out there. But there are times when we cannot connecting our minds, solve our problems, convey our feeling to each other. It was really frustated. We cannot communicate. And, there are also time, when we be the best team, providing each other with love, understand each other feeling, and certain things when everything seems O.K.
"Women and Men speak different language." -Unknown. I strongly agree with that sentence. Men talking to the wall, while women talking to the sea. They both never heard each other voices. Men only talk about a thing they want to say without having other 'hint' hiding behind their words. While women always hiding a 'hint' behind their words. And Men was designed to not be able crack the code behind those 'hint'. That's why they never hear each other voices.
From what I see in my perspective, Women is more open about their feelings, they love to express their feeling in words, while Men is.... I don't know, Men is just complicated about their feelings. And sometimes this can lead into a conflict. Like in this case, on a way back home after a first date a women would expressing their excitements, their feelings, while men are just drop her at her house without showing their feeling. Women would feel that their pride is hurt, they thought they're the only one who enjoys their first date while the men isn't. In some cases this can get into a more serious problems. And this is why I said men are pathetic. They can put aside their masculinity for a while, show her some of your feelings dude, how tremble you are during the date, how faster your heart is beating, this is the way to win a Venusian's heart. Show 'em that you adore 'em from the moon and back. Women love to be the one, and men should already know that, and how to act upon that. Could you, please?
So yeah this is my opinions of men are from mars and women are from venus. Even after read the book I still can't understand a men's heart they really complicated.
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After I read one of the chapter, I come into a conclution that, Men are also as complicated and pathetic as much as women.
Yes you heard it right.
We're live to believe that Men is a strong creature more than a woman in a physical prespective, men are more focus than a women, and any other Men's masculinity that we've heard a lot. But we never heard a sentence that point out the weakness of a men, aren't we?
I ever had a relationship with a man, I admit it's a special also a serious one. This man has an incredible skill of listening to all of the words that came out of my mouth, just listening without complaining. He also has an incredeble problem-solving skill, and able to cope with stress and problems. But, after a long time that we've spent together, I realize that he has a bad communication skill. I don't know if it just to me or to anyone else out there. But there are times when we cannot connecting our minds, solve our problems, convey our feeling to each other. It was really frustated. We cannot communicate. And, there are also time, when we be the best team, providing each other with love, understand each other feeling, and certain things when everything seems O.K.
"Women and Men speak different language." -Unknown. I strongly agree with that sentence. Men talking to the wall, while women talking to the sea. They both never heard each other voices. Men only talk about a thing they want to say without having other 'hint' hiding behind their words. While women always hiding a 'hint' behind their words. And Men was designed to not be able crack the code behind those 'hint'. That's why they never hear each other voices.
From what I see in my perspective, Women is more open about their feelings, they love to express their feeling in words, while Men is.... I don't know, Men is just complicated about their feelings. And sometimes this can lead into a conflict. Like in this case, on a way back home after a first date a women would expressing their excitements, their feelings, while men are just drop her at her house without showing their feeling. Women would feel that their pride is hurt, they thought they're the only one who enjoys their first date while the men isn't. In some cases this can get into a more serious problems. And this is why I said men are pathetic. They can put aside their masculinity for a while, show her some of your feelings dude, how tremble you are during the date, how faster your heart is beating, this is the way to win a Venusian's heart. Show 'em that you adore 'em from the moon and back. Women love to be the one, and men should already know that, and how to act upon that. Could you, please?
So yeah this is my opinions of men are from mars and women are from venus. Even after read the book I still can't understand a men's heart they really complicated.
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